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Question: Considering the tragedy in Colorado, what does your clinic think could possibly cause teenagers to result to such violence and what can we do? Answer: Just as a single raindrop does not cause a flood, neither does any one problem result in such behavior. We are complex creatures made up primarily by genetics, environmental and personal choice. As an example a person may have the genetic predisposition for alcoholism but he must still choose to go to the bar and order a drink. Our nation has become a child-centered society where the child's self esteem is more important than self-control. As adults we must prioritize. If we help children develop self-control and steer them to positive goals they will develop a healthy self esteem. Parents don't have to be perfect but they do have to be involved in every aspect of their children's life, allowing children to EARN privileges whey they have demonstrated the responsibility. Our media has role modeled unsafe levels of violence and immoral behavior that makes it difficult to avoid exposure. Our schools can provide more security by tightening up on dress codes and demanding respectful behavior. The easy availability of weapons to young people must be addressed. Finally, the facts are, people who look to God and the Bible as their ultimate authority do not participate in such senseless, evil acts of violence. A skilled therapist with a Godly value system can help identify and treat children and families who may be concerned with such issues. We are dedicated to help. Answered by: Dr. Robert Rice |